Haven is…
my grandmother’s maiden name.
I didn’t know Verla Haven (she’s the one on the right!) as she died before we were born, but my sister and I always found Haven to be a bit of a romantic name that inspired a sense of delight. Over time, when I finally understood Haven also meant ‘a port in the storm’, it became even more meaningful. I could connect with my lineage, who I am today, who I belong to, and who I hope to be for others.
Hello! I’m Erika von Haaren.
An Episcopal priest for over 18 years, my career roots began in tiny Minnesota churches in the southeast Mississippi river valley. After an undergrad degree in Theatre Arts from the U of MN, I took off to New York City in 2003 to study Jesus. I landed at Saint Barnabas in Scottsdale, AZ after I earned my M.Div. from General Seminary in 2006. This large, robust parish where I spent 14 years was the opposite of my upbringing and brought me opportunities to grow and learn I could never have dreamed as a small-town farm girl. I became a certified Daring Way™ facilitator in 2014 and use this resource in a multitude of ways to serve others as they grow. I became a Certified ILS Enneagram Coach in 2021 to help people walk the path of self-discovery through this meaningful tool. I also spend time in Interim Ministry for the Diocese of Arizona and love helping parishes bridge into their next future by shoring up systems, assuring best practices, and attending to the emotional journey of corporate transition. (Photo credit: Amy DeCaussin)
Values Guide The Way.
I’ve spent years honing in on the values that drive me. Knowing what they are means I know when I’m living outside of them too so I can amend my path and get in alignment again. Below are the 4 values I strive to live into.
Empathy.
I’m an ENFP & an Enneagram 2. I’ll feel out the path with you.
Grace.
Being human is hard. There’s room to not have it all figured out here.
Family.
When it comes to what matters most, the folks who will be with you at the end take top billing.
Integrity.
Being true to my word and doing the best I can to be honest and courageous with words and deed.